I write for Helium and You can too!

Some parents luck out and find that they have a genius for a

child. Some parents who may not have an honor roll student

still manage to instill the value of learning and making the

most of each school day-these children are blessed. However

there are those who are just there languishing. Either they

have parents who never liked school themselves and unwittingly

(or wittingly) passed the distaste for classrooms on to the

child or the child is possibly in the wrong type of school.
Public schools are for every citizen K-12. Then there are

magnet schools where the pupil has to apply and possibly have a

specific strength like fine arts or math and science.
Charter schools are public schools as well but are looked upon

by many in the education community as less restrictive and more

supportive of students who find learning difficult in a

structured environment-like a neighborhood public school. There

is no tuition required of a true charter school. Fees should be

no more than what any public school needs for uniforms and book

rental. Charter schools get public funding from the respective

local school district.
Another type of school is the college preparatory curriculum

that may be found in day schools-where students go home in the

evening-or boarding schools. These type of schools usually

require a tuition. Financial may be available. Some of these

type of schools are same-sex campus and then some are co-ed.

Many of them are for high school students but there are some

across the country that are open to pupils as young as second

grade or possibly kindergarten.
Military schools are for the student who either wants to be in

the military in the future, attend a military college, need the

rigors of a military school or who come from a family who

attended military academies. They too require a tuition

usually.
Parochial schools are available in a variety of faiths, the

most popular being Catholic and Jesuit. Normally, there is a

tuition requirement.
There is a school for every pupil's need if you are willing to

make sacrifices and conduct a little research.

Who is the Good Shepard?

John 10

The Good Shepherd and His Sheep
1 "I tell you the truth, anyone who sneaks over the wall of a

sheepfold, rather than going through the gate, must surely be a

thief and a robber!2 But the one who enters through the gate is

the shepherd of the sheep.3 The gatekeeper opens the gate for

him, and the sheep recognize his voice and come to him. He

calls his own sheep by name and leads them out.4 After he has

gathered his own flock, he walks ahead of them, and they follow

him because they know his voice.5 They won't follow a

stranger; they will run from him because they don't know his

voice." 6 Those who heard Jesus use this illustration

didn't understand what he meant,7 so he explained it to them:

"I tell you the truth, I am the gate for the sheep.8 All who

came before me* were thieves and robbers. But the true sheep

did not listen to them.9 Yes, I am the gate. Those who come in

through me will be saved.* They will come and go freely and

will find good pastures.10 The thief's purpose is to

steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich

and satisfying life.
11 "I am the good shepherd. The good shepherd sacrifices his

life for the sheep.12 A hired hand will run when he sees a wolf

coming. He will abandon the sheep because they don't belong to

him and he isn't their shepherd. And so the wolf attacks them

and scatters the flock.13 The hired hand runs away because he's

working only for the money and doesn't really care about the

sheep.
14 "I am the good shepherd; I know my own sheep, and they

know me,15 just as my Father knows me and I know the Father. So

I sacrifice my life for the sheep.16 I have other sheep, too,

that are not in this sheepfold. I must bring them also. They

will listen to my voice, and there will be one flock with one

shepherd. 17 "The Father loves me because I sacrifice

my life so I may take it back again.18 No one can take my life

from me. I sacrifice it voluntarily. For I have the authority

to lay it down when I want to and also to take it up again. For

this is what my Father has commanded."
19 When he said these things, the people* were again divided

in their opinions about him.20 Some said, "He's demon possessed

and out of his mind. Why listen to a man like that?"21 Others

said, "This doesn't sound like a man possessed by a demon! Can

a demon open the eyes of the blind?"

Jesus Claims to Be the Son of God
22 It was now winter, and Jesus was in Jerusalem at the time of

Hanukkah, the Festival of Dedication.23 He was in the Temple,

walking through the section known as Solomon's Colonnade.24 The

people surrounded him and asked, "How long are you going to

keep us in suspense? If you are the Messiah, tell us plainly."
25 Jesus replied, "I have already told you, and you don't

believe me. The proof is the work I do in my Father's name.26

But you don't believe me because you are not my sheep.27 My

sheep listen to my voice; I know them, and they follow me.28 I

give them eternal life, and they will never perish. No one can

snatch them away from me,29 for my Father has given them to me,

and he is more powerful than anyone else.* No one can snatch

them from the Father's hand.30 The Father and I are one."
31 Once again the people picked up stones to kill him.32

Jesus said, "At my Father's direction I have done many good

works. For which one are you going to stone me?"
33 They replied, "We're stoning you not for any good work,

but for blasphemy! You, a mere man, claim to be God."
34 Jesus replied, "It is written in your own Scriptures* that

God said to certain leaders of the people, `I say, you are

gods!'*35 And you know that the Scriptures cannot be altered.

So if those people who received God's message were called

`gods,'36 why do you call it blasphemy when I say, `I am the

Son of God'? After all, the Father set me apart and sent me

into the world.37 Don't believe me unless I carry out my

Father's work.38 But if I do his work, believe in the evidence

of the miraculous works I have done, even if you don't believe

me. Then you will know and understand that the Father is in me,

and I am in the Father."
39 Once again they tried to arrest him, but he got away and

left them.40 He went beyond the Jordan River near the place

where John was first baptizing and stayed there awhile.41 And

many followed him. "John didn't perform miraculous signs," they

remarked to one another, "but everything he said about this man

has come true."42 And many who were there believed in Jesus.

Every one's Parents are getting older

My parents are getting older. Every one's parent's are getting older but I worry about things like Alzheimer's Disease. How will I know what to look for as they grow older?
I ran across this site called Alzheimer's Foundation of America.
I found out that the disease is not a natural part of aging and that it's more that just forgetfulness.
Memory loss--especially of recent events--forgetting where they put things and forgetting new information are signs of the disease. Confusion and struggling to complete familiar actions, such as making coffee, what to do to get ready for bed, i.e. brushing teeth are also signs. Also, having trouble finding appropriate words, completing sentences, and following directions are also signs. A big indicator also is poor judgment when making decisions. This along with
changes in mood and personality can actually cause arguments--further pushing parents and potential caregivers apart. Increased suspicion, rapid and persistent mood swings, withdrawal, and disinterest in usual activities and not being able to perform difficult tasks like balancing a checkbook, are also huge indicators.
I remember there was a time where my mother kept asking me if I took little odd things from the house or if I took $5 from her purse. During that time I was living in another city. She stopped asking me so I just thought she was being silly. However, mom often becomes quarrelsome. I thought maybe she was cranky from being diabetic. She said she had not had breakfast when I asked her if she ate. It was 1 p.m. and she was too focused on shopping to care. I have had to learn to ask mom questions in non-threatening ways in order to get a response and not an argument.
While I don't know how I will talk to my parents about this (they told me to mind my own business when I tried to help them with signing up for Medicare)I will however, support this cause.
I plan to shop for mom's holiday gift at the site's eStore. Dad too. Maybe this will open up the subject.
All of the proceeds will benefit the Alzheimer's Foundation of America, so it's a win-win situation and it will help me out of a tight spot.
Seeking a cure to Alzheimer's is important and making sure those who suffer from the disease get quality care is just as important. I think the holidays are a good time to give a gift donation or buy a gift from the eStore.
I'm going to do this because it's easy to mistreat someone who is suffering from this disease. They my exhibit the crankiness--which leads to arguments but it's scary to watch the people who raised you to brush your teeth every night go without toothpaste because they kept forgetting it at the store and then decide it isn't important. The only thing is that both of my parents are still living and what one forgets, the other one will remember--for sure. Because of this, it will probably be harder for me to figure out what is going on.

I no longer know how to jump rope

I know longer know how to jump rope or double dutch so don't ask me to play with your kids. Now that I have your attention please read this very interesting article on HIV and a man named John Kevin P.
John Kevin P. (not his actual name) comes from a family of three brothers and two sisters and of them; two of the five are living with HIV/AIDS.

Kevin P., for the sake of his family members, wants to keep his illness quiet, so Kevin is not his real name.

"When my sister was diagnosed it was before the disease had a name. She was diagnosed in 1979," he said.

Her only symptom, he said, was her boyfriend's unexpected death.

By the time the words GRID, (gay related immune deficiency) or, Slim (how researchers said the affected population in Africa referred to the disease), AIDS (Acquired Immunodeficiency Syndrome) and more recently HIV (Human Immunodeficiency Virus) were known, Kevin was had already been diagnosed.

In 1996 at the age of 46, he told his partner about the diagnosis. His partner was in shock when Kevin told him and got retested. Although they are still friends and his partner didn't become angry, he still moved out-of-state. He said he and his partner were having unprotected sex.

"I didn't think I was positive or my partner. The tests didn't always show in those days. The tests were not as sensitive and weren't always picking it up," he said.

Kevin said he wasn't bitter when he found out, he took it in stride. He looks at his disease the same way a person who has heart disease would, he said.

"These things are going to happen. It is to be treated as any other public health concern. Are you not going to have a breast exam because of the public stigma? --No," he said.

The 52-year-old gay, white male is a stroke victim and wants retain some anonimity as he, in his own way, educates others about the disease--which is easier now since he has become disabled after having a total of four strokes.

"My only recover is to be involved. The main thing I'm trying to do is get people to care.

But even with being involved he says there is a stigma attached to having the disease, which is why he stays within the realm of those who walk his same path.



"You have to understand, Palm Beach County is very unique were the only county in the state that has the health care district covers health care not just hospital care. A lack of insurance keeps them from seeking services," he said.

Wednesday June 27 is National HIV Test Day. The Palm Beach County health Department in conjunction with it's community health partners organized a number of sites starting June 24 to June 27 to test for the virus that causes AIDS.

Kevin said this would be the first year since his positive diagnosis that he won't be participating because of health concerns.

"We have seen 450 new HIV infections in each of the last two years. With the advances in the diagnosis and treatment of HIV/AIDS people need to know their status to be able to take advantage of these advancements and control their health. It's better to know," PBC Health Department Director, Dr. Jean Malecki said.

Health officials said Palm Beach County is unique in that their numbers of HIV/AIDS are always high. According to the 2000 U.S. Census, over 230,000 Haitians live in Florida, making the state home to the largest Haitian population in the U.S., followed by New York. At one point, the Haitian community had been blamed for the high numbers but that has changed.

"It's not limited to the Haitian community. Statistically, there is no way of telling if the Haitian female or Jamaican or any other African-Caribbean race is being affected because statistics aren't broken down that way," Tim O’Connor, spokesman for the PBC Health Department said. The statistics show information broken down to White, Black, Hispanic, and other most times.

He said the most troubling fact is that there are 38 new HIV diagnoses each month.

A study conducted in 2002 by the PBC Health Department shows there are hot spots where teen pregnancy rates and risky sexual behavior are highest.

Lake Worth, West Palm Beach, Pahokee, Belle Glade, West Palm Beach/Haverhill, Riviera Beach, Delray Beach, Canal Point, Boynton Beach, and West Palm Beach/Greenacres, are areas where women ages 15 to 19 are having babies and engaging in risky behavior.

Additionally, health department officials say women in their childbearing years are the fastest growing group of HIV positive patients. Studies also show in 2002, Black children accounted for 90 percent of the total pediatric AIDS cases in Palm Beach County and the state led the U.S. with the highest number of pediatric AIDS cases.

Estimates show that as many as 25,000 of the 100,000 HIV infected persons in the state don't know their HIV status, information from the Palm Beach County Health Department said.

Comprehensive AIDS Program South County Regional Manager Kai Johnson and Rose Joseph are two of three regional managers that will help coordinate the county testing this month. Johnson said beware of statistics because they don’t tell the whole story.

"At one time there was a large incidence of HIV/AIDS that began with the Haitian community but that hasn't really been true for a number of years now," Johnson said.

CAP statistics show in December 2002, an estimated 5957 blacks (includes African Americans, Haitians, Jamaicans and all Caribbean Islanders) were living with HIV or AIDS in Palm Beach County, representing 67 percent of all those living with HIV/AIDS in the county at that time.

Within the state, 1 in 46 Blacks are affected by HIV/AIDS and one out of 131 people living in Palm Beach County is living with HIV/AIDS.

The Mixer

I have a special chocolate chip cookie recipie that I have been making for the past 16 years. I started making it when I was expecting my daughter. She is now a teenager but has raved about the cookies to her little brother since he was three. He's now nine.
The thing about the cookies though is that I make a big batch and then freeze the rest so that there aren't too many cookies out there for them to eat at once.
However to make a big batch you'd have to pump iron mixing it by hand. I did once and my shoulder hurt forever. I switched from my electric hand mixer I got at a discount store to mixing it by hand because I couldn't get my hand mixer through the dough after adding the flower.
Last week my children hinted that warm chocolate chip cookies would be nice for Thanksgiving. I said, "O.K." and then I forgot about it. Today, while shopping with mom, I saw this gorgeous Hamilton Beach® Mixer that was available in an array of colors like licorice, sterling, pineapple, apple, sugar and Ultra Marine. I swooned.
With 400 watts of power on my side, I could mix even the toughest jobs--like 9 dozen cookies at once or dough for a huge loaf of bread.
I read about some of the features. It has a professional 2-way rotating head for thorough hands-free mixing (someting anyone who cooks can apprecieate--and don't you hate scraping the bowl when you have a lot in it?), high-performance electronics ensure constant power--I burned out the motor in a couple of hand mixers in my day and 12 settings so that I can really take care of business in the smallest amount of time possible. The stainless steel bowl locks in so it's secure and it has a handle. It has several types of beaters, a splatter sheild and a three year limited warrenty. Another plus is that it's modern so it isn't waking the neighbors with a loud motor.
How much easier would I have it if I had a Hamilton Beach® Stand Mixer in sugar sitting on my counter. I'd invite people over just to see it. I could place all of my ingredients in the mixer bowl and not have to hold on to the bowl for dear life when I put my hand mixer into it. And I'm tired of that mixing spoon. It's like having one of those old-timey potbellied roller washer (that you could see dotting many porches back in the day down South) and everyone else has the new modern washer.
I mean, I kind of really need the mixer because I do an awful lot of baking--besides cookie dough.
Here is the recipie if you want to give it a try. I triple mine. If you do that too, please use the Eclectrics® Mixer and you will not be sad.

2 1/4 cups flour
1 teaspoon baking soda
1 teaspoon salt
1 cup butter
3/4 cup granulated sugar
3/4 cup brown sugar
1 teaspoon vanilla extract
2 eggs
2 cups Chocolate Chips or favorite candy

King of Queens

I am stuck like stupid on the King of Queens. I have this strange habit of only liking a show only after it has entered into reruns. There are only so many sitcom shows that have a high quality of writing where, a. it's believeable b. it's funny.
Like tonight this is the one where Carrie's dad Arthur brings home a ping pong table and the dude the works inside the subway booth's girlfriend gets promoted to waitress at the BOWLING ALLEY. How funny is that? Real jobs for a change. Paralegal Delivery Driver, Retirement.
By the way, TV Links has ended and the creator arrested.

The Mist

I remember when I first read "The Shining" by Stephen King. It was scary--very suspenseful and it took me a while to get over the fear. A while passed by and I came to see "The Shining" on the silver screen. Like I said, it was a while ago and I can't even remember who I went with but the one thing I will never forget is when Jack's wife went into the study to look at the book. She had been walking on eggshells all of that time and she was snowed in with no apparent way out. And her husband was acting strange. The hotel was acting strange. She felt as if she was there all alone there with her little boy.
What she found there was every woman's nightmare. I will never never forget the fear and panic that went through my body and landed in my gut when she finally saw how completely insane her beloved husband had become. And there was no one to help her.
All of Stephen King's characters have a supernatural edge and have frightened me over the years but The Mist by Stephen King is something else.
Have you ever gotten up early to go to work or whatever and had to drive in heavy fog or Mist? You can't see two feet in front of you and you're driving and all of a sudden you think you see something in front of you and you slow down?
The thing about this movie is that there is something in the Mist. It's the anticipation in the supernatural thriller that is so scary.
The Mist will be in the theaters November 21 but I saw the trailers and once again, it seems as King has outdone himself with those creepy characters. And this time they are all stuck in a grocery store.
The thing about the characters he creates is that they hit close to home. There is a Bible thumper amongst the crowd trying to outlive whatever it is in the Mist, that utters the line ...It calls for blood."
She was talking about the times of sacrifice for sins and ultimately, in the movie, it is believers against unbelievers against what ever it is in that Mist.
I tend to look behind the door a few too many times after each encounter with Mr. King. Go see this movie.

Music lightens your mood and alleviates stress

I'm A Sucker For Your Love [1981/Live In Long Beach, CA]

I found another WAR video

Slippin' Into Darkness with Hillary Clinton & Robert Novak

[via FoxyTunes / War]

Hell naw...Listen to Gimme More ("Kimme More" Remix) by Britney Spears featuring Lil Kim

Chaka Khan & Rick James - Slow Dancin'

[via FoxyTunes / Chaka Khan & Rick James]

Listen to Can't Hide Love by Earth, Wind & Fire

Listen to Illumination by Earth, Wind & Fire :

Listen to Pure Gold by Earth, Wind & Fire :

Listen to The Essential Earth, Wind & Fire by Earth, Wind & Fire :

Listen to That's The Way Of The World: Alive In '75 by Earth, Wind & Fire :

Listen to The Eternal Dance [Reissue] by Earth, Wind & Fire :

Listen to The Collection by Earth, Wind & Fire :

Listen to That's The Way Of The World/All 'N All/Gratitude (3 Pak) by Earth, Wind & Fire :

Listen to All 'N All by Earth, Wind & Fire :


EL DEBARGE
All This Love
20th Century Masters: The Millennium Collection: Best of DeBarge
Time Will Reveal [Single Version]
A Dream


MAZE FEATURING FRANKIE BEVERLY

Listen to Can't Get Over You (Album Version) by Maze :

Listen to We Are One (24-Bit Digitally Remastered 04) by Maze :

Listen to Lady Of Magic by Maze :

Listen to Reason by Maze :

Listen to While I'm Alone by Maze :

Listen to Southern Girl by Maze :

Listen to Golden Time Of Day by Maze :

Listen to Before I Let Go by Maze :

Listen to Joy And Pain by Maze :

Listen to Happy Feelin's by Maze :

Listen to The Morning After by Maze :


Listen to I Wanna Thank You by Maze :

Listen to The Look In Your Eyes (Live) by Maze :

ISLEY BROTHERS

Listen to this great music from Napster! Click below to hear Hello It's Me by The Isley Brothers, and go to Napster.com to listen to millions of free tracks.

Listen to Make Me Say It Again Girl (Parts 1 & 2) by The Isley Brothers

Listen to Don't Say Goodnight (It's Time For Love) [Part I & 2] by The Isley Brothers

Listen to Voyage To Atlantis by The Isley Brothers

Listen to Look What You Done For Me (2003 Digital Remaster) by Al Green

Listen to I'm Still In Love With You (2003 Digital Remaster) by Al Green

Listen to Sha-La-La (Make Me Happy) (2000 Digital Remaster) by Al Green


Listen to (At Your Best) You Are Love by The Isley Brothers

Listen to this great music from Napster! Click below to hear I Once Had Your Love (And I Can't Let Go) by The Isley Brothers, and go to Napster.com to listen to millions of free tracks.

Listen to For The Love Of You [Part 1 & 2] by The Isley Brothers

Listen to Here We Go Again (Parts 1 & 2) by The Isley Brothers

Mary (Her songs have gotten me through some low points I have purchased My Life several times as I keep scratching the CD)


Listen to Be Happy by Mary J. Blige :

Listen to My Life by Mary J. Blige :

Sade (when sipping on warm (name your liquor) she is Sadie the shady lady) Sade has provided so many hours of comfort with her soulful grooves. I love my lady of soul! How is it that she understands heartache but also the exhilarating heights of love as well? I want to see her in concert--how have I missed so many?)Listen to Lovers Rock by Sade :

Listen to Lovers Rock / Lovers Live by Sade :

Listen to Lovers Live by Sade :

Listen to Diamond Life by Sade :

Listen to Promise by Sade :

Listen to Love Deluxe by Sade :

Listen to Best of Sade (Legacy) by Sade :

Listen to Stronger Than Pride by Sade :

Listen to By Your Side by Sade :

Listen to Diamond Life/Promise/Love Deluxe (3 Pak) by Sade :

Artists I love

Listen to I'd Rather Be With You by Bootsy Collins :

Listen to Back & Forth [Mr. Lee & R. Kelly's Remix] by Aaliyah :

Listen to We Need a Resolution [Album version] by Aaliyah :

Listen to Rock the Boat [Album version] by Aaliyah :

Listen to Aijuswanaseing [Edited Version] by Musiq :

Listen to Juslisen by Musiq :

Listen to Save Room by John Legend :

Listen to Once Again by John Legend :

Listen to Get Lifted Special Edition by John Legend :

Listen to soulstar [E-Album] by Musiq :

Listen to Baduizm - Special Edition by Erykah Badu :

Listen to Worldwide Underground [EP] by Erykah Badu :

Listen to At The Close Of A Century by Stevie Wonder :

Listen to Stevie Wonder's Original Musiquarium I [Reissue] by Stevie Wonder :

Listen to Songs In The Key Of Life (Reissue) by Stevie Wonder :

Listen to Hotter Than July [Reissue] by Stevie Wonder :

Listen to Best Of/20th Century - Christmas by Stevie Wonder :

Listen to Gold by James Brown & His Famous Flames :

Listen to Thank You by WALTER HAWKINS :

Listen to We Fall Down by Donnie McClurkin :

Listen to The Very Best Of Sounds Of Blackness by Sounds of Blackness :

Listen to This Is Christmas by Luther Vandross :

Listen to This Is The Day by Walt Whitman and The Soul Children Of Chicago :

Listen to Live and Blessed by Walt Whitman and The Soul Children Of Chicago :

Listen to At Christmas Time (LP Version) by Luther Vandross :

Listen to Have Yourself A Merry Little Christmas by Luther Vandross :

Listen to This Is Christmas by Luther Vandross :

Listen to The Very Best Of Change by Change :

Listen to Say You Love Me (LP Version) by Natalie Cole :

Listen to Say You Love Me (Album Version) by CeCe Rogers :


SAY YOU LOVE ME BY DJ ROGERS (HE RECORDED THIS IN 1976)

Listen to Love Brought Me Back by D.J. Rogers :


click on the title to view the complete document
Summary: The use of music as a means of inducing positive emotions and subsequent relaxation has been studied extensively by researchers. A great deal of this research has centered on the use of music as a means of reducing feelings of anxiety and stress as well as aiding in the relief of numerous pathologies. The precise mechanism responsible for these mediated effects has never been truly determined. In the current report we propose that nitric oxide (NO) is the molecule chiefly responsible for these physiological and psychological relaxing effects. Furthermore this molecules importance extends beyond the mechanistic, and is required for the development of the very process that it mediates. Nitric oxide has been determined to aid in the development of the auditory system and participate in cochlear blood flow. We show that NO is additionally responsible for the induced exhibited physiological effects. We proceed to outline the precise neurochemical pathway leading to these effects. Furthermore we explore the interrelationship between the varying emotion centers within the central nervous system and explain how the introduction of music can mediate its effects via NO coupled to these complex pathways. Defining Stress The term stress as defined in the strict biological sense is an event or stimulus that alters the existing homeostasis within a given organism [1]. Some theorists now refer to the healthy state as one of stability in the face of change.

Your Site for Backgammon

If you want to improve your backgammon game visit 1 on 1 Backgammon for tips and strategies.
On the site there is information about backgammon--whether you’re looking for basic backgammon rules or strategy. They have rules for all the variations of backgammon but the site's focus is on playing backgammon for money.
The site is also geared towards online backgammon players who are looking for tips and strategies to improve their online backgammon play. Backgammon pros who have been playing the game a while and are looking to try a different type of backgammon game would be interested in the site as well.
The site also has the history of the game and related articles--all things backgammon.
There is information on Tavli and Favga--Greek backgammon; Jackquet and Narde.
Click on the link below to find out more.